EEKS! Father’s day is almost here? (And you are gift-less at this point?) No worries, sister. You’ve got this. And it’s going to be great!
Take a moment to consider what most matters to him, then, with your kids, make a gift that will best communicate your love!
According to Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages, everyone experiences love differently, and most people feel it primarily in one of five ways.
So…
1. Identify your man’s love language here: 5 love languages quiz
2. Zero in on ideas from the list below for his #1 love language, and get into action!
“Word of Affirmation” DIY Gift
- In a journal write specific character qualities you admire about him, and specifictimes that you were proud of him in different situations. (If children are able to participate in this, that’s even better!)
- Frame a family picture. Write on the matte words that describe Dad’s most amazing qualities (Written in the children’s handwriting if they are able.)
- Do around-the-table affirmations (again, the key is to share specific qualities and instances of awesomeness!)
“Acts of Service” DIY Gifts
What are tasks that Dad usually does that you could take care of for him? Ideas to get you going:
- Detail and put gas in his car (I just did this for my husband’s birthday, and he loved it!)
- Shine his shoes and put a little tag on them like “Shined with love, by Jacob”
- Make his favorite meal and favorite dessert. Present him at his placemat some coupons for his typical jobs that family members will cover for him such as “I will mow the lawn” or “I will take out the trash this week”
“Receiving Gifts” DIY Gifts
Some easy and useful gifts with step-by-step instructions:
- DIY BBQ Rub, by Kristen Duke – BBQ rub recipe and free printables here
- DIY whipped eucalyptus shaving cream, by Annie Chesson – Shaving cream instructions here
- “Dad’s stache” gift jar, by Alice Wingerden – “Dad’s stache” tutorial and free printables
“Quality Time” DIY Gifts
The key here is to identify something Dad loves, and do it with him. (Really, you needn’t spend a lot of money! It’s all about time together for this guy.) Even you just sitting with him and watching while he does something he needs to do can be meaningful (I know you non-quality time girls are doubting me right now, but it’s true!)
Need some ideas?
- Grill out – Family time, enjoying food
- Go fishing together
- Play a favorite game
“Physical Touch” DIY Gifts
- Cuddle while watching his favorite movie
- Make coupons for things like “Good for one 30 minute foot massage” or “Good for one 10 minute back scratch”and let him redeem them immediately.
- Gift him with a professional therapeutic massage
Better yet, go for a combo of some of the above ideas. I mean, who doesn’t feel loved by these? The main thing to remember is to be sure and hit the #1 love language.
Have a great weekend celebrating Dad!
Let’s go make every minute count,
Brenna